Today is the day of love. It’s Valentine’s Day. Many people will buy flowers, chocolate, jewelry, cards, and scrumptious dinners to express how much they love the other person. It’s like the second coming of Christmas early. My Pastor declared the entire month of February as the month to show love. He has given his members the charge to display love to strangers and even to those that get on your last nerve. Do good to strangers by paying for their groceries. Say What!!! Yes, pay for the person’s groceries or lunch that is in line behind you. How about mending a broken relationship? Show love to everyone. What a charge!
Recently, my cousin had a friend who passed away unexpectedly. As far as everyone knew, this friend was healthy and there were no warning signs. He went to lunch and wasn’t discovered until the end of the work day. He passed away alone in his car with his lunch on his lap. This was heartbreaking because he had relocated, gotten married and had his first grandchild. My cousin described him as strong, poised and always moving forward.
I find myself thinking of my cousin’s friend often. Did he tell his wife he loved her that morning or did he run out the door? Was he late for work? Was there anyone that he wasn’t speaking to in his family? When was the last time someone in his family told him, they loved him? If we knew when we would take our last breath, would we act as if every day was Valentine’s Day?
I must make a confession. I hadn't spoken to a relative for 8 months until I learned of my cousin’s friend. My relative became angry with me because of a comment. It wasn't about anyone’s race, gender, religion, family, job or politics. I know what you are thinking, “Naw girl, you did some-tin” . It was actually a joke about me. There should have been a truce made by one of holidays: “My Birthday”, Thanksgiving, Christmas or by New Years, however there were no calls. Peace talks had to be initiated by me.
I couldn't imagine if something tragic happened to either one of us and we weren't speaking. I am learning that people react out of their experiences. It didn't matter if I felt it was my fault or theirs. I had to make the first move. I apologized to make things right.
Proverbs 17:7(ISV) says, A friend loves at all times and a brother is there for times of trouble. I am going to take on my Pastor’s charge, not only for this month but for the entire year. Yes, I will show love to everyone, every day. I will show love even if someone cuts me off in traffic (no finger) or says something rude. “Oh Lord Help Me” because here comes the test. Each day is a new start.
With all that said who’s on board to show love? Have Valentine’s Day all year long. Love me or Love me not. I chose Love.